Beautiful Warm Weather in San Francisco
I’m BACK! And it’s so beautiful in San Francisco, went swimming at Baker beach thrice last week and twice in Pyramid Lake! Heaven is on earth!
I’m BACK! And it’s so beautiful in San Francisco, went swimming at Baker beach thrice last week and twice in Pyramid Lake! Heaven is on earth!
Well, I’ve had the dream device for just under a week and I love it.
Jay played Ceth in John Cameron Mitchell’s Shortbus and he’s also a singer songwriter, I wanted to share this song, Soda Shop, with you so have it here in two formats, one is Jay’s youtube video and below is a nice quality mp3 ready for your iPod, enjoy!
(if ur interested, buy “soda shop” and the shortbus soundtrack on itunes or here: saddle-creek.com
How adorable is this guy? Seriously.
My good friend Nicki’s Stumble page, she’s the greatest voice talent on the west coast, and she’s amazing!
From our discussion earlier, we agree that being secure in a relationship allows openness to sexual experimentation with third (or fourth parties), this theory is confirmed by a quite smart Nurse/Counselor called Kathy Labriola and she discusses lots of interesting points on her site but spends an entire page on ‘MANAGING JEALOUSY IN OPEN RELATIONSHIPS’ and explains in the second paragraph that
“Jealousy is about fear–fear of the unknown and of change, fear of losing power or control in a relationship, fear of scarcity and of loss, and fear of abandonment. It is a reflection of our own insecurity about our worthiness, anxiety about being adequate as a lover, and doubts about our desirability.”
Henceforth, a secure enough person or persons will be able to manage their fears or hopefully have no fears at all and in these circumstances, the relationship is then strong enough to endure openness. Kathy goes on to explain that in a lot of cases she’s dealt with, one of the couple had insecurities about another aspect of their lives and that the affair or indulgence that the partner engaged in was only a trigger that upset the insecure person.
Its quite a subject to understand and rests on the security of individuals in relationships, of course greater security and confidence are almost always good things in any adventure we embark upon, so the main lesson is to be strong, believe in yourself, conquer your fears and live each darn day!
Darling,
Continuing a tradition on this blog of fromagerie, I’ve picked out this great live version of ‘Two Step’ for todays soundtrack 
I’ve been considering staying a little longer in San Francisco ever since I stayed in the Mission district on my first night there with William, its a really nice area with Valencia street full of laid back coffee shops, boutique stores and used book stores. I got to stay there again after hospital when a friend let us use his place for a week, Its freakin fun down there and I guess I have toyed with the idea of putting off my flight till some time in March since Aer Lingus sent me my itinerary for Dublin.And thats why I didn’t pay attention to that Itinerary! As a result, I’ve discovered while sitting here in LAX at 9am that my flight out of LA isn’t till 5pm! Giving me time to write this post and consider my options.
Packing up for the drive to LA, its an emotional time. Gonna miss you.
Mother Night
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